There is much in Scripture that warns against and even condemns the improper use of our tongue. It certainly has the potential to defile our whole body, kindle a fire and curse men (Jas. 3:2-9). We should study carefully and heed closely the Divine admonitions, for we shall be judged by those things which proceed from our mouths (Matt. 12:36-37).
However, there is much good that we can do with this little member. While it can “condemn” us, it can also “justify” us (Matt. 12:37). What sorts of things can you do on a daily basis with your words that can cause the lovingkindness of God to shine upon you? Remember that “the tongue of the wise promotes health” (Prov. 12:18). What can you say on a daily basis to promote health?
Say, “Please!” Name one person with whom you might interact who does not deserve every ounce of your respect. “Please” says that I am no better than you. It conveys humility and kindness, which is the law which ought to govern the Christian tongue. Make “Please” a regular part of your vocabulary.
Say, “Thank you!” Name one person who does not need to know that you noticed them and what they did. From the person who goes out of their way for you to the person who is merely fulfilling their assigned obligation, every person deserves to hear you say express your thanks. In a day of “gimme” and “entitlement” attitudes, the Christian should stand out in his recognition of others. Make “Thank you” a regular part of your vocabulary.
Say, “Have a nice day!” Name one person who does not need a positive response from you. Even those who knowingly (and even unknowingly) say something that could potentially ruin your day deserve a pleasant word of encouragement. Perhaps you can be the one to turn someone’s day around. Make “Have a nice day” a regular part of your vocabulary.
Say, “I appreciate you!” Name one person who does not need to feel appreciated. The world around us beats us up one day and then beats us down the next day. Christians have an opportunity to make a difference and build someone up, even folks who may be hard to encourage or might not deserve it in our minds. Make “I appreciate you” a regular part of your vocabulary.
Say, “God is good!” Name one person who does not need to be reminded that nothing else matters without God. These three simple words can help others to have a little light in their dark day or even open doors of opportunity to teach others. Make “God is good” a regular part of your vocabulary.
Does your tongue promote health? Give it a try!