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How Do I Compare to Others?

As we approach the end of one year and the beginning of another, this is often a time of introspection and personal evaluation on numerous levels.  As you spend time assessing where you are—financially, relationally, medically, spiritually, etc.—make sure that you are using a proper standard.

Paul addressed this matter in 2 Corinthians 10:12, when he defended himself against false charges that were being made against him and his authority as an apostle.  His accusers were ones who were “commending themselves” (i.e., were bragging on themselves), but their standard of evaluation was a faulty standard.  Paul stated that “they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves,” resulting in an inflated opinion of themselves and seeing themselves as doing better than others.

A faulty standard will lead to faulty conclusions.  The inspired penman declared that those who compare themselves to others “are not wise” (NKJV) and “are without understanding” (NASB).  There is one perfect standard against which we must all measure ourselves—Jesus Christ and His Word!  Using any other yardstick is a serious mistake.

Some Christians compare themselves to the world and feel good about themselves.  “At least I’m not living like those people anymore or doing the horrible things those people are doing.  Compared to them, I’m an angel and doing just fine.”  A faulty standard will lead to faulty conclusions.

Some Christians compare themselves to “weaker” Christians and feel good about themselves.  “I’m not doing much but at least I’m doing more than that sorry excuse for a Christian.  I don’t see how they think they’ll ever make it to heaven.  At least I’m doing better than they are.”  A faulty standard will lead to faulty conclusions.

Some Christians compare themselves to “stronger” Christians and feel bad about themselves.  “Look at all they are doing.  There is no way I will ever make that much of a difference.  I’m embarrassed to even try to do more, as my efforts seem so pitiful.”  A faulty standard will lead to faulty conclusions.

All Christians should compare themselves to the one standard that never fails, the one standard that remains steadfastly consistent, the one standard that applies universally to all of us in all places for all time.  “Imitate Christ” (1 Cor. 11:1).  “Follow His steps” (1 Pet. 2:21).  “Be conformed to the image of His Son” (Rom. 8:29).  Look to His words (John 12:48).  Look to His example (John 13:15).

As we transition into a new year, spend time in evaluation of where you are spiritually, but make sure that you are using the proper standard.