These are four words that all Christians would do exceedingly well to lodge in their hearts and live in their personal interactions. It is really easy to get our feathers ruffled and get upset, even with our fellow Christians, over what is usually not all that significant in the grand scheme of things.
When Abram and Lot and their families returned from Egypt, “their possessions were so great that they could not dwell together. And there was strife” between their herdsmen (Gen. 13:6-7). Abram took the initiative (always a good thing to do). He said, “Please” (always a good way to start), “let there not be strife between you and me, and between my herdsmen and your herdsmen” (taking a direct but loving approach). Do you know the basis upon which Abram pleaded for them to be at peace with each other and not quarrel? Four words: “For we be brethren” (13:8).
The next time strife seems to be building with fellow Christians, be the first to say, “Hang on! Please! Let’s work this out. Let’s not be at odds. You know why? For we be brethren!”