Have you ever been part of a group project? In the ideal situation, everyone has an equal share of the work and helps with the final project. Often there are one or two people in the group who do very little or nothing. There are many people, who are willing to let others do the work, rather than do work for others. This is a group dynamic that is generally true. That is why group projects (and political parties), based on the concept that “we all work for the common good,” usually don’t last. “Why?” you ask. Because in the end, we are more motivated by personal gain than the “good of others.” It is too easy to sit back and do less and still receive the same reward.
However, as Paul wrote, “you have not so learned Christ” (Eph. 4:20). The church isn’t the same. It is not some man-made institution where human concepts always apply. The church is a hybrid of better things. By that I mean we need to work for the common good and for individual responsibility. Paul mentioned to the Philippians that the work they did would “increase to their account” (Phil. 4:17). Christ is seen in Revelation chapters two and three judging whole congregations saying, “I know your deeds” (Rev. 2:2, 19, 23; 3:1, 8, 15). In that same context, Christ also mentioned individuals (Rev. 2:20). The New Testament is very emphatic about personal responsibility, or every man being judged “according to his deeds” (Rom. 2:6).
So, what does this have to do with the Family/Youth? We need everyone involved. This is an “all hands on deck” call! Amazing things can be done with God, faith and a mind to work (Neh. 4:6). We have to put aside the concept that says, “I belong to the group so I can get the benefits” or “This isn’t about me.” While it is true that belonging to a faithful, healthy congregation has its benefits, it is equally true that you will be judged by your own fruits (Matt. 7:20). Coming to worship is not involvement but rather an aspect in the lifestyle of a person who calls Christ, “Lord.” What Christ wants is that all would be active in the work of His church, like “living stones” (1 Pet. 2:5). You can be active through the “Family and Youth,” “Laborers Together with God” or in ways that no one will ever see. The important thing is that we are actively living our devotion. Paul wrote this to Titus, “Our people must also learn to engage in good deeds to meet pressing needs, so that they will not be unfruitful” (3:14). There are “pressing needs” that nobody can do for us. Christ already did all the heavy lifting, showing us love through self-sacrifice. It is our turn to show love through obedience.